Romance scammers create fake profiles on dating sites and apps or contact you through popular social media sites like Instagram or Facebook. The scammers strike up a relationship with you to build up trust, sometimes talking or chatting several times a day. Then, they make up a story and ask for money.

How to Avoid Losing Money to a Romance Scammer:
Here’s the bottom line — Never send money or gifts to a sweetheart you haven’t met in person.
If you suspect a romance scam:

  • Stop communicating with the person immediately.
  • Talk to someone you trust. Do your friends or family say they’re concerned about your new love interest?
  • Search online for the type of job the person has plus the word “scammer.” Have other people posted similar stories? For example, search for “oil rig scammer” or “US Army scammer.”
  • Do a reverse image search of the person’s profile picture. Is it associated with another name or with details that don’t match up?

Those are signs of a scam.